Wednesday, 17 January 2007(G)

I just realised that it takes good memory to become a bus driver lah. A few days ago, i was on board a bus to go home. Was trying my very best to doze off to no avail. End up staring out into the dark road. Then suddenly the bus stopped at a bus stop. From what i see there is noone at the bus stop and the bus stopping sign is like not on. Was still in a wondering mode, when the bus driver walked out of his seat. Then i thought, " Dammit.. of all time the (insert profanity) bus have to break down now ..what the (insert vulgarity) (another vulgarity) . Lucky i have bus concession if not i think i will just shred the bus driver alive." But to my surprise instead of walkin out of the bus by the front door , the bus driver walked all the way to the back and confronted a sleepy passenger. I suppose waking up to an angry bus driver isn't the most exciting thing in this world. Factor in the fact that you are in lala land with your girlfriend who happens to be next to u. Well, the stunned look on that person's face is priceless lah. Then the bus driver started saying smth, from what i gather apparently the guy paid only 1.20 and i tink he sat pass the amount or something like that. I am quite shock with the memory of the bus driver lah.. what did that guy do when he board the bus lah? he slapped the bus driver as he paid his fare ah?or maybe he attempted to practice his bargaining skills with the bus driver ?
In the end, apparently i tink the sleepy guy won, cos the bus driver walked back to his throne with a can't say is happy face. Never knew that bus drivers have so good memory lah..

Anyway was talking to some people with regards on whats their take on relationships. Than after talking to them i come to asking-for-a-tight-slap-conclusion.The conclusion is , everyone is different. It may seem like a cliche to many but i personally feel that not many can really apply it. As everyone know that there is no two same person in the world , and scienctifically its proven that genetically identical twins are different also. So i shall not touch on that. Rather i would like to say its because that everyone is different , it will be easy to manage a relationship if u cannot afford to accept your other half's faults and habits, and expect to change for you. Don't use urself as a benchmark to gauge your other half, and expect that your other half to be like you and understand you always. We are all different. I remember reading it somewhere that its because we are different , it makes the relationship a very challenging thing in life. Its like chemistry i suppose, because we are all different reagents and mixing each of reagent with another we get a different product. We never know what we get until we try it. Some people tend to be more resistive even in a relationship, however, like in chemistry, if u add a little reagent you might get a different product from adding a lot. In a relationship, adding reagents is liken investing in a relationship, if you are only willing to invest a little you might not see the result you expect. A very nice example would be the very common NaOH addition to test for cations, about how the result is like when you add a little and when you add excess. Of course i also understand that sometimes add a little is enough to see a visible effect. Like the ever blasting caesium with water. I suppose thats why people use the word chemistry to describe relationship. haha...all the above is wat i think ...any comments please do feedback to me..haha