Yes jj..its long enuff.. Anyway a simple comment to ur post, i suppose at the end of the day its not really making a scapegoat out of someone, but rather, it all stems from the person trusting the other guy well enough to help him. If the other guy pushes the blame to this guy when trouble occurs, than only thing that can be said is the person got no one to blame but himself for being so trustful. It may sound a bit harsh but this is the said reality of life. The guy will have to pay for a lesson than. Like what my father always says, "You can either learn it the hard way or the easy way."(naturally he will use it when he is losing to an argument with me but thats besides the point) In the case, that guy is learning via the hard way. Life itself is a teacher , which teaches us important lessons, like in school there are some lessons that you will not like and may even hard, its the same for life i suppose. Responsibility is not something u just say when everything is fine, rather its what u do when something really happen. If that guy has to shoulder all the blame, in the view of optimist , he will know who are his true friends i suppose, a friend in need is a friend indeed. As for you, helping is no doubt good, but in my honest opinion , why should you embroiled yourself into this trouble. Are you sure you are considered helping him? I wld feel that u will be making a recipe for a big disaster for yourself. In future should a similar thing happen again, people will expect you to help, and then u will just put yourself nicely into a wonderful mess. Rules are set for a reason and that reason is not be bent. The person should already be of mature age, and should be able to take up the responsibility be it his fault or not. Life is like that, even in adult phase.
That aside, nth much happened to me as compared to jj, my life is duller. Managed to skip a massive jam on friday by skipping a lecture at some god forsake hour, came up with one of the stations questions to kill the incoming freshies. Ameet begins to think that i m innately sadistic for all the weird ideas i have. haha... in all sense life still goes on as per normal. i still get caught in jam in the morning regardless of wat bus i took. Lectures still as boring. Lecturers still as incomprehensible. I am still sadly single.I am still ugly and fat. and i am still waiting for singapore pools to wake up their idea and gimme the millions that i so deserve. Tutorials still look equally daunting and i am still equally clueless about wats going on. hatred still continues to burn in me even though its a few months since its last ignited. Anger comes and go, sorrow no longer hold on to me, happiness is ard somewhere but being so elusive i hv yet to find it. in the end i suppose, in this sad sad world there is only one person who can make us happy or sad or angry and that would be ourselves. We control our emotions, we choose whether we let people make us angry or sad. Thats why when u are sad just will urself to be happy, not easy but not impossible also .
In a nutshell, "There is only one way to happiness and that is to cease worrying about things which are beyond the power of our will." .. Ciaoz
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