Responsibilities(J)

Responsibilities are part of our life.
We all take up a certain amount of responsibilities
some more, some less...
When something happens, we might be made the scapegoat to take on full responsibilities for some bad incident.
i agree we shld ans for our faults but then, wat if it happened while trying to help ppl.
it will be realli unfair to put the blame on the person but then we can't blame the ppl for asking him to help, coz eventually he was the one whu agreed to helping.
no, i am not involved in such incidents but i am seeing quite a number of it.
it gives mi a helpless feeling... being indirectly involved in the incident, i cannot ask the ppl involved to share the responsibilities. And if i step in, there will be a lot repercussions that will follow.
If the same things that happen to mi, i will of coz hope that someone will help mi...
but will the help be then expected for the next guy...
Being responsible for our own actions will force us to think and plan our moves...
but once u expect ppl to help share responsibilities, u might just be that less careful going abt doing things and there is a chance of bad incidents happening.
Some ppl may even insist i should step in to help, making things easier this time and state my rules that i will not step in again. Seriously, I cannot make decisions on my own as well and then there are really a lot irritating adminstrative problems. Well, i hope that everything will turn out fine eventually.. I can only hope so...
feeling realli helpless that even my sister can sense that i am troubled....
Maybe all this things are insignificant to worry abt, coz i am not involved. But i always like to see things frm other ppl's pt of view and it is hard not to get involve also... my bad pt...

oh well, maybe a miracle will happen tml... haha...
signing off....
J
(PS to G, long enuff?)